Thursday, August 7, 2008, was a very exciting day. So exciting in fact, that it was hard to concentrate on work. What made it even harder was plenty of email and text messages that arrived from a very good friend of mine. A friend so good in fact, that even though we had never met, we had kept in contact for over 10 years. And tomorrow I was going to meet my friend – for the first time. You can imagine how excited we both were.
To meet my friend I had to fly for 5 hours on a plane – to the lion city – Singapora. I was very glad that Trevlyn offered to drop me off at the airport. My flight was at around 9pm with Tiger Airways (I will get to this one in a minute) and I was at the airport at around 6:30pm, plenty of time to look around the shops, buy some last minute items and text some more with Joe. To be able to understand my excitement, here is the background.
It was in 1997, just when the whole internet craze started that Joe and I met in a chat room. Yes, yes, I know what you are thinking and I know what it sounds like but you are wrong. This was the time when people still talked about politics and football (soccer… Joe was an avid Liverpool fan) and it was the time when people were still excited that you could actually talk to someone in Singapore or in the UK, where I was at that time, over the internet. Joe and I kept in touch all those years, we almost lost contact once or twice, but somehow managed to always get a hold of each other again. In those 10+ years a lot of things happened in both our lives. Joe went to the police force for 2 years ( a mandatory thing in Singapore, to be either in the army or the police force as a young guy), he got married and had a baby. I went country hopping in the meantime. We sent postcards, little gifts, lots of emails. My family knew about him, his family knew about me. It was just a good friendship - we started calling each other brother and sister.
Coming to Australia finally brought us close enough for a visit, so we picked a weekend and I bought a ticket. Since it was somewhat last minute, I picked a “cheap” airline – Tiger Airways. Tiger Airways flies budget, which means you pay an arm and a leg for anything above a seat. So I did not eat on the plane, nor drink (you even had to pay for water). Instead I slept until we arrived at the budget terminal of Singapore’s Changi airport. Immigration was completely painless and there I was. First time Asia, first time Singapore and first time meeting my brother Jojo – who of course was waiting at the airport at 3am in the morning on August 8, 2008 (08-08-08 which is a very lucky day, that’s why the Chinese decided to have the opening of the Olympics that day) I was so glad to see Joe.
He grabbed my bag and off we went to find his car. He asked me to pick out of the cars parked at the airport. Of course, I thought more practical than anything else and thought with wife and kid and a second kid on the way, he surely would be driving something like a minivan. I was so wrong!!! Joe pointed to the souped-up mazda 3. It was quite sparkely, inside and out and had big decals on the side and back. A very very nice car!
To catch up on some more sleep we went to his place and I was allowed to sleep in Zacheus’ (his son’s) bed while little Zach slept with mommy and daddy. In the morning I also met Joe’s wife Carrie, who made me great breakfast, and Zacheus, who was a little shy but the cutest little boy. He looked like his mum but had his dad’s dimples. Just adorable! After breakfast and a little photo session we dropped Zacheus off at Joe’s mum’s and Carrie at work. Unfortunately, she couldn’t take the day off and all the walking around would probably have been too much for her since she was 8 months pregnant. I am very happy and grateful thatshe let me have Joe as a tour guide for the next two days. And what a tour guide he was.
First we drove around the city for a little while and went to the Singapore flyer, a big wheel similar to the London Eye just much bigger which gave us a great overview over the city. I also learned that Singaporeans live in three types of houses. The government-subsidised units or HDB housing (HDB = Housing and Development Board) are pretty nice apartment complexes and about 95% of Singaporeans live in these massive high rises. Apart from that there are condominiums which are fancier apartments with pool, gym and similar facilities. Lastly there are single family houses but these are too expensive.

Click the wheel for more pictures
After the flyer we had lunch and Joe showed me some of the culinary delights of his country. They have awesome food! I had prawn mee, which is a dish of egg noodle with prawns in a very fragrant stock served with lime and sambal chilli. For dessert I had ice kachang - a dessert of rather colourful shaved ice. You have to dig through the ice to get to the red beans, corn and some kind of jelly, all in a malty tasting sauce. After so much food and a quick stop at the fountain of wealth which was unfortunately not accessible, Joe thought it would be good to do a duck tour and see Singapore from the water. The duck tour gave me some great photo opportunities of downtown Singapore, the small Merlion – the mascot of Singapore – the Singapore Flyer, Benjamin Sheares Bridge and Lai Chun Yuen Opera House. The latter looked like 2 big durian fruits.
After the duck tour we went to Bugis Street, a huge market, and bought some souvenirs as well as bubble tea. I LOVE BUBBLE TEA. Bubble tea comes in all sorts of flavours and has huge tapioca pearls in it and sometimes jelly. I had passion fruit tea. Very yummy! After the market and a stop at an orchid plantation we went to Joe’s parents’ house. It is unfortunate that I could not bring any orchid seedlings into Australia. My mum would have loved them. Joe’s parents are very very friendly and his mother immediatly started feeding me. They love to eat in Singapore. I also met Joe’s sister Cherry who is my age and also pregnant with her first babt and his little brother Javier, who just started his 2 year service in the air force. He is 18. Zacheus was also around and was playing with Thomas the Train and Nikkie (or Beo… not sure what name) Cherry’s overweighed jack russell terrier. After dinner which consisted of chicken soup, some spicy fish and lots of veggie such as broccoli, peppers, chinese cabbage (bok choy?) and baked beans all with heaps of rice, Javier, Joe and I went off on another adventure. But not before his mother could give me a special gift, a hongbao, a small red envelope containing money. It is supposed to bring luck and drive out evil spirits – so of course I will keep the packet and the money inside. It was a very very generous gift and won’t be spent.

Javier, Joe and me
Our last item on the busy schedule tonight was a night safari. For that we went to the zoo. The night safari was on a train and passed by the animal enclosures which were relatively open. We saw rhinos, buffalo, giraffes, Indian elephants, tapirs, flamingos, wolves and mountains of other animals from all different continents. After the safari there was – of course – food! Joe got us chicken satay and stingray in sambal chili sauce. Both were very good although I have to say the sambal chili stingray was one of the spiciest things I had ever tasted. We all broke out in a sweat, especially Javier. Javier also explained to me about Singlish – very similar to Spanish except that they don’t mix Spanish and English but Singaporean (really Mandarin) and English. Very cheem!!!! (very difficult)
After that we were all dead tired from the walking, the food and the Singapore heat. It was very hot and humid, probably in the high 20s lower 30s and with the humidity it seemed even hotter. It was quite a nice change from the rather cool Perth though. Joe and Javier dropped me off at my hotel in Little India which was buzzing with life. There were people everywhere but I was way too tired to go out into the bustle, so I had a quick shower and dropped dead onto my bed.